So I’m dating… And realizing that I’m more useful to myself and my community as a divine single female- right now. It’s such a powerful feeling! This morning I’m approached by a successful good-looking man and it ends with me coaching him about his life! I could not have that level of authenticity and being real if it had started with a romantic ideal. Final hurrah to the rescue-fantasy goggles! Ive seen that love matters when it inspires me to be the best woman (and he is inspired too)! And sex only matters in a committed relationship 🙂 Awesome!